Mila, 21

I’m tall, slim, brunette and probably a little more composed than people expect at 21.

I like things to feel effortless. Good clothes, good conversation, a beautiful dinner, a man who knows how to behave without turning it into a performance. I notice details very quickly, and I usually make up my mind about someone just as fast.

I can be reserved at first. Not shy — just selective.

With the right person I’m much softer, more playful and very attentive. I like subtle flirting, intelligent humour and men who don’t need constant reassurance.

I don’t really chase attention.

It tends to find me anyway.